Cluster Feeding: What It Is and How to Get Through It
What cluster feeding is, why it's so hard, practical ways to get through a cluster feeding evening, and how a postpartum doula helps with feeding.
By Karen, Certified Postpartum Doula
Your baby fed an hour ago, and now they want to feed again. And again. If it’s evening and you’re wondering whether something is wrong, you’re probably in the middle of cluster feeding.
What cluster feeding is
Cluster feeding is when a baby wants to feed many times close together, often for a few hours at a stretch. It usually happens in the late afternoon or evening. It’s common in the newborn weeks and during growth spurts, and it’s a normal part of how many babies feed.
It can happen whether you breastfeed, bottle feed or do both.
Why it’s so hard
It tends to happen at the end of the day, when you’re most tired. You may feel stuck on the couch for hours. Many parents start to worry that they don’t have enough milk, or that they’re doing something wrong.
If you’re worried about how much your baby is eating, their weight or their diapers, call your pediatrician or a lactation consultant. They can tell you whether what you’re seeing is normal for your baby.
How to get through a cluster feeding evening
Set up your spot before it starts. Water, snacks, your phone charger, burp cloths and the remote, all within reach.
Take turns. If a partner or family member is home, they can burp, change and rock the baby between feeds, so you can eat or rest.
Eat and drink. It’s easy to forget when you’re feeding for hours.
Lower your expectations for the evening. Dinner can be simple. The dishes can wait.
Get feeding help early. If latching hurts, or pumping isn’t working the way you hoped, a lactation visit can make a real difference.
How a postpartum doula helps
Our doulas help with feeding every day. During a daytime shift, your doula can help with latching, pumping and feeding plans. They’ll also make you a meal, fill your water bottle, and clean bottles and pump parts while you feed. Overnight, your doula brings the baby to you for feeds, then burps, changes and settles them so you can go straight back to sleep.
We also offer lactation support in person or by video, from getting a comfortable latch to building a pumping routine that works around your life.
Daytime and overnight postpartum care are $55 to $75 an hour. Lactation support is $60 an hour. See what happens during an overnight doula shift and our services and rates.
Call 508-881-2200 or text 508-766-0100 to talk to us about feeding support.